Want to know how to create a wedding timeline? Just plain curious why your super relaxed and fun-filled day needs one? I promise even if you hate logistics, wedding timelines are easy and single handedly the best thing you can do for your sanity – and the sanctity of your marriage.

From your bridal party not being ready on time and your MOH rushing you into your dress to your mother-in-law dragging in her second cousins for the 50 thousandth impromptu group photograph, there are about a million in ways your wedding day can ‘go wrong’. Without a timeline, you’ll likely miss out on photographs you wanted and your day will feel a bit all over place. Either it will feel rushed from start to finish or have massive lulls where a guest or two falls asleep – it could also end up being a mix of both.

But with a timeline? The day will run smoothly and you’ll be able to enjoy every part of your day – from spending time with your nearest and dearest, to eating those award-winning hors d’oeuvres. You’ll also be able to enjoy all the reasons you booked your wedding venue, so that’s a massive win! And on top of all that, your wedding suppliers will know what needs to happen when and any hiccups can be kept to a minimum.

After photographing weddings for well over a decade, I’ve got a pretty good idea of how long things take and have successfully helped my couples have a wedding day that flows perfectly and just how they imaged. For a ton of top tips on having a really amazing wedding day, I’ve dished out all the wisdom I’ve gleaned over the years in this blog post. And as I start by saying in that that top tips post, you don’t have to do all or any of the moments mentioned in this timeline guide (except maybe the vow bit!). Take inspiration and get creative with ideas from places like WeddingWire’s top tips page, Pinterest and my wedding planning resource page. This day is yours and I hope you make it your own.

How to create a wedding timeline

So now that we’ve got the disclaimer out the way, here’s what you need to do first in order to outline the basics of your wedding timeline. Start by breaking your day up into the key events: such as getting ready, ceremony, drinks reception, wedding breakfast, and evening disco. Write down the times you’d like these to commence. We’ll then break things down more later in this post (such as when to do toasts and group portraits), but this way you can start to figure out where and when you can fit everything in.

Getting ready wedding timeline

Bride getting ready at Fossa Mala in Italy | Pordenone destination photographer

The first thing to think about when deciding times for getting ready on your wedding day, is to start with hair and makeup. If you’re having a makeup artist and wedding hair stylist, find out when they need to start and how long they will take. In my top tips tell-all wedding blog post, I suggest the bride gets her look done towards the middle of the bridal party – never last and and have this set to finish at least an hour and half before needing to leave. This ensures that you won’t be late to your own wedding and you’ll have a chance to let your hair and makeup settle a bit and fix any issues you notice. You’ll need about 30 minutes to get into your wedding dress and accessorised, plus time to take any group photographs – so that hour and half will go by quick!

If you’re having bridal prep photographed, I usually arrive at least 2 hours before the ceremony. When I arrive, I quickly photograph all details (so have those all ready in one spot so I know what needs photographing), and then I can focus my attention on capturing candid moments and any group photographs requested before heading to the ceremony location.

I then aim to leave the bride with enough time to arrive at the ceremony location at the same time as the groom. This way I can capture photographs of the groom with his friends and family, as well as the ceremony location, decor, and guests arriving. Alternatively, you can book one of my second photographers and they can cover the groom prep and guests arriving at the church.

Though every wedding is unique and not all of these may be applicable to yours, here are a list of timings you should consider outlining for the morning:

Bridesmaids arrive at: XX:XX
Flowers arrive at: XX:XX
Beauty professionals arrive at: XX:XX
Photographer arrives at: XX:XX
Bride getting makeup done at: XX:XX
Bride getting hair done at: XX:XX
Bride getting dressed at: XX:XX (tell everyone else they must be dressed before this time, check out my wedding tips blog post for why this is important)
Car arrives for Bride at: XX:XX
Photographer leaves for ceremony location at: XX:XX
Bride leaves for ceremony at: XX:XX

Ceremony timeline

Holy Trinity Church ceremony in Cuckfield Wedding Photographer

What time your ceremony takes place can play a big part in how your day flows. A 10 AM ceremony with the wedding breakfast at 6 PM will most likely have a lull. For wedding venues that are able to perform civil ceremonies and host your wedding breakfast, a start time between 1 and 2:30 PM is usually optimal as you won’t have much or any lulls and the wedding won’t be over and done with in a blink of an eye. For those weddings with a bit of a drive, do plan for an earlier ceremony depending on the commute.

And speaking of commutes, both bride and groom should plan to leave 15 minutes before you actually need to leave for the ceremony location – there is always some sort of delay and last minute checks can turn into 10. Plus don’t forget traffic – and on that note, make sure you check there are no planned events going on, road works or closures. If there are, take even more time into account. You can always have a cheeky drink at the ceremony location, especially if there is a pub or restaurant bar just across the road.

Here are the timings to jot down for the ceremony:
Groom arrives at: XX:XX
Guests arrive at: XX:XX
Bride arrives at: XX:XX
Ceremony starts at: XX:XX
Ceremony ends at: XX:XX

After the ceremony

Unless you run straight out of church to a car with the engines already roaring or the drinks reception is at the same place as your I Do’s, you’ll most likely spend about 40 minutes at the ceremony location after exchanging your vows. Guests are going to want to chat with you, shower you in confetti, surround your getaway car, and cheer at the top of their lungs while taking loads of photos on their phone before you drive off. Make time for this. This moment is important and special. But above all, make time for just the two of you.

I always have my couples walk out the ceremony doors and head to a private location (such as the other side of the building or different room) so they have 10 minutes or so to truly celebrate and talk. This is perfect if doing a confetti toss, as you can have your bridal party organise this and you don’t have to stand around awkwardly waiting for a bunch of adults to get corralled into two lines. With you hiding away, said confetti tunnel also forms a lot more quickly as guests are eager to see you!

Ceremony venue in Guildford | Surrey St Luke's Church photography

After allocating another 20 minutes for you two to be bombarded with confetti and chat with your guests, I suggest doing group portraits. You can either do these at the ceremony location and/or at the wedding venue. The benefit of doing the bulk of these at the ceremony location is that guests who are not needed for portraits can head over to the venue to give you a bit more privacy with your immediate family. The portraits will also go more quickly as people will be eager to head to the drinks reception and not dilly doddle. If you want to do an all group portrait, I suggest doing these later in the evening – keep reading to find out why!

Here are the timings to consider jotting down:
Confetti toss start time: XX:XX (schedule for 15 minutes after the ceremony is set to end.)
Group portraits start: XX:XX (give yourself 20 minutes to greet guests after confetti toss before these start. For group portraits, set aside 3-5 minutes per photograph for parties with fewer than 7 people).
Leave for reception venue: XX:XX

Drinks reception timeline

This is the time where, as a photographer, I put my people management skills to the test. I like to get these completed as quickly as possible and have couples confirm a list of crucial portraits in advance. This way I can keep an aunt from suggestion a “cousin photo” and dragging things out. Any extra groupings that you wouldn’t be devastated to miss out on, we can attempt to squeeze in later – I tell family and guests this too to keep everyone happy.

Group portraits are mentally draining on couples (and by that I mean the groom in particular), so consider limiting group portraits to 30 minutes. While I do goofy things to make portraits fun to break up the standard posed shoots, chatting with friends and relaxing is so much more ideal. So working with the knowledge that each group photograph takes between 3-5 minutes, choose your groupings wisely. There is always the risk some family member will walk off to get a drink or nip to the loo, and so this can easily turn what is supposed to be 30 minutes into an hour. My best advice here is to make sure you tell your guests in advance if they are needed for portraits and when those are set to happen. I’d also recommend you have a designated photo helper for the bride’s side of the family and groom’s. They will be in charge of rounding up everyone who is needed.

If you want an all group photograph, I typically suggest you schedule this for just after the wedding breakfast ends, before the cake cutting, first dance or bouquet toss as guests will have to be rounded up anyway. This one group portrait can take 15 or more minutes to organise, so keep that in mind when deciding if this is a shot you want and also when to fit it in the wedding timeline.

Here are the timings to jot down for this part of the day:
Drinks reception start time: XX:XX (have this last for about an hour and half to cover time needed for group portraits and to also give you a bit of time to mingle)
Group portraits start time: XX:XX (if not done at ceremony location)
Bridal party portrait start time: XX:XX (set aside 15 minutes for small bridal parties and 30 minutes for bridal parties with 4 or more people).
Couple portraits start time: XX:XX (set aside 15-30 minutes. We’ll do more in the evening, but this ensures you have some great photographs before people get a bit too tipsy or your hair starts to come undone from one too many hugs).

Wedding breakfast and evening timeline

Jewish horah wedding dance | Brighton-wedding-photographer

Now is the time to eat, drink and be merry. Though with that said, this is about the time the bride starts relaxing, and the groom starts to stress – that speech hasn’t written itself!

To space out the rest of your evening, make sure you leave a decent break between the meal and the start of the first dance so that the venue can change the room layout for a party atmosphere, guests can freshen up, and the band or DJ can set up.

Brookfield Barn wedding photography on golf course | Horsham photographer

You’ll also want to ensure you have a natural break in the evening to sneak away and do your last set of couple portraits and maybe any group combinations that had to be skipped earlier. You’ll want to do couple portraits at golden hour, when the light is the best. From about April to August, this starts at around 7:30-8:30 PM in the UK and lasts for an hour. Here’s a golden hour calculator to get the exact start time for your wedding date. This time is always one of my couple’s favourite parts in the day (even grooms that swore prior they hated the idea of pictures have come back with high praise about this moment in particular). This is one of the rare moments where you two are alone. And to give some real privacy, I often put on a big lens and give you loads of space for a couple minutes to just chat.

Timings to consider for the evening:
Wedding breakfast start time: XX:XX
Meal served at: XX:XX
Toasts start at: XX:XX
Toasts end at: XX:XX
Group portrait at: XX:XX
Band/DJ sets up: XX:XX
Evening couple portraits at: XX:XX
Evening guests arrive at: XX:XX
Cake cutting at: XX:XX
First dance at: XX:XX
Dancing starts at: XX:XX

Putting your wedding timeline into action

Now that you’ve got all the key moments, write up your timeline chronologically and add any other bits in that you can think of. Send the full timeline to your photographer, wedding coordinator, and wedding venue (and anyone else that this feels applicable to). It’s also a good idea to send information about your evening plans to the Band/DJ.

But above all, be flexible. The beauty of a wedding timeline is that you’ll be able to do just that. If it rains and you desperately want portraits done outside, your photographer can work with your other suppliers to figure out the logistics of making that happen. We’ll be in the background checking weather forecasts, coordinating to shift the cake cutting up by 15 minutes and pushing back the first dance by a few more, etc.

If you found this blog post useful on how to create a wedding a timeline, you have to check out my top tips wedding blog post as it serves as a perfect companion to this. It’s really, really good – like really good!

And if you haven’t yet booked a photographer, but are thinking you’d really love someone by your side other than your other half who is funny, caring and has your back the entire day (and can also create wonderful photographs, send me an email so we can start dreaming about your perfect day together). For couples that book with me, I take all your key elements and create the timeline for you from a straightforward questionnaire – taking care of a lot of the logistics for you.

I hope planning your dream wedding is a really fun, enjoyable experience. And if you want more tips and inspiration, make sure you check out places like the WeddingWire’s top tips page as well as the planning resource page on my website.